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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

14.06.2025 17:10

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

Were the 1980s as uptight and prudish as movies and TV shows make them out to be? When I think of 80s culture, I think about a very "icky" judgmental yuppie status quo time period.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

Ananda Lewis, Celebrated MTV VJ, Dead at 52 - Rolling Stone

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

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